静下来，去看看，你的内心在发生着什么。

at least u were given life

不能再预想你的回答，把你当作我实现自己目标的手段
我要好好地对你，我只想听你说，连过多的提问也不要了
我想要平衡，这对于我这种highly emotional的人，不是一件容易事儿啊

This episode of life is just like a movie
it can be worse. how lucky we are that we didnt mess it up
how lucky I am intelligent enough
just say goodbye. keep my bravery to go on my life
to lead a happy life as u do
to catch something beautiful in daily life
to love another person
to keep faith in love

我们并不非得知道所有答案，与其追根刨底，不如坦然接受。这种态度能够促进更深层次的个人成长，因为它可以提升我们对于负面情绪或不确定因素的容忍能力。换句话说，我们无法弄清每段感情走到尽头的所有原因，然而坦然地接受事实、面对事实（即使有时候这十分艰难），能使我们能更轻松地对待生命中的其他不确定因素。
所以，如果真正的解脱并不存在，那么最好的解决方法也许便是调整自己对那份悲伤和失落的预期。想一想失去的这段感情意义何在，肯定这段感情的重要性，再之后，要做的便是去追寻成长，追寻其他有价值、有意义的生活和感情。当我终于立下决心，开启一段新的人生旅途时，我遇到了我新的爱人。曾经对“解脱”的需求至此几乎消弭无形。我是否还爱着之前那个人？当然，我们的感情是我生命中很重要的一部分。那么，我是否爱着我新的爱人？当然，每一天都爱。我想，这就是解脱的含义吧。至少，对我而言是的。I

我对你来说 一定一定也非常非常重要吧

孩子不要忘记了 人间的遭遇有它的规则
有一天当世界都变了 别忘记天空原来的颜色
We are in the relation.
I and Thou.
We meet, be fulfilled, and become an I in the end.
But there is also a word responsibility
which means respond to your ability
that is why the princess Ann in the movie Roman Holiday, decide to give up their love between her and the journalist Joe
She has to take her responsibility
I know it is hard, but we cant be together
I have to enter the world of IT, cuz nobody can live forever in the world of THOU
I dont want you to become my object one day, that is too cuel for us all
You teach me love. You loved me. you complete my soul. Through you I become an I.
You come into my life, and make me awake.

那一个比你还在乎你自己的眼泪的人