我一开始不知道她的情况,和她聊了音乐、聊了心理学,聊了很多共同话题,三天的时间里几乎聊了所有事情,自己心里最脆弱、最不敢面对的底线也都聊了,彼此感觉很有共同语言、很投缘,很有信任感,很放松,我很心动,想告诉她时却得知她已经和别人订婚了,聘礼也收了,9月就要领证结婚了,但是我问她的时候,她又说那个人条件并不好,矮粗胖、没文化,和她也没多少共同语言,她也不是很喜欢那个人,而且订婚主要是她父母决定的,她迫于父母的压力不得已只能认命,她已经认为结婚和爱情没有关系了,对爱情几乎不抱有期望,而且我和她都承认彼此相见恨晚。
我感觉她并不讨厌我,也并不爱那个婚配者,那个人还比她大两岁,我跟她同岁,我比那个婚配者外表、身高、文化、家庭、和她的共同语言都有优势,我该怎么做?求赐教!![](http://static.tieba.baidu.com/tb/editor/images/client/image_emoticon9.png)
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我感觉她并不讨厌我,也并不爱那个婚配者,那个人还比她大两岁,我跟她同岁,我比那个婚配者外表、身高、文化、家庭、和她的共同语言都有优势,我该怎么做?求赐教!
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