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1楼2016-05-14 16:02回复
    感恩很重要,说说大家最近需要感恩的人或事吧


    2楼2016-05-14 16:06
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      扯远了,嘻嘻,那大家觉得自己身边的朋友是不是都懂的感恩呢?懂的感恩的人都有哪些特质呢?


      3楼2016-05-14 16:08
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        尽扯些没用的,约不约才是最重要的


        IP属地:上海来自iPhone客户端4楼2016-05-14 16:10
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          听说第一件事情是会记日记。
          Research has shown that writing down what you're thankful for can lead to a multitude of wellness benefits. In order to reap the full benefits of journaling Emmons,a gratitude researcher and psychology professor at the University of California recommends writing for five to 10 minutes every other day. "You really need to commit to doing it and if you write it down eventually it will become more automatic" Emmons says. "It's like exercise you need to have a plan. You need to have a gratitude action plan whether it's waking up and writing in the morning or in the evening before you go to sleep."
          研究显示记下你所感激的东西对健康大有益处。为了充分发挥记日记的好处,加利福尼亚大学的感恩研究员兼心理学教授埃蒙斯建议每隔一天写5-10分钟日记。埃蒙斯说:“你真的需要专心投入,如果你都写下来,最终会成为习惯。就像做锻炼需要有一个计划,你要有一个感恩行动计划,无论是早起写日记还是晚上睡前写都可以。”
          因为我是外语专业的,所以很多时候都会先写英文,习惯了这种对话,希望大家不要介意,我也很喜欢看英文素材,给我英文作文加分不少。


          5楼2016-05-14 16:18
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            帖子突然太正经不习惯


            IP属地:广东来自Android客户端6楼2016-05-14 16:30
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              帖子突然太正经不习惯


              IP属地:广东来自Android客户端7楼2016-05-14 16:31
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                2. Don't avoid the negative.
                不会躲避消极的东西。
                Expressing gratitude may generate more optimism but thankful people also don't shy away from the negative. Emmons says that while we often associate gratitude with focusing on the good and avoiding the bad the key to leading a thankful life is embracing setbacks as part of your overall journey. Emmons suggests recalling a hard time you once experienced -- chances are you'll start to feel grateful for your current state and overcoming former challenges.
                表达感恩会产生更多乐观情绪,但感恩的人也不会躲避消极情绪。埃蒙斯称,我们总是觉着感恩就是关注好事、躲避坏事,但生活中感恩的关键是把挫折视为整个生命旅程的一部分。埃蒙斯建议你回忆曾经历过的一段困难时期,然后你可能就会开始因目前的状态和成功应对了之前的挑战而感恩。


                8楼2016-05-14 17:14
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                  还有个是做志愿者。
                  这个是不可少的啦
                  Everyone needs a little help sometimes -- and grateful people know there's no other way to acknowledge this than by actively doing something about it. In his book Thanks! Emmons wrote"Since service to others helped them to ?nd their own inner spirituality they were grateful for the opportunity to serve". As research published in BMC Public Health points out volunteering can result in lower feelings of depression and increased overall well-being.
                  每个人有时都需要一点帮助,而感恩的人知道只有通过积极帮助别人才能意识到这一点。埃蒙斯在他的《感谢》一书中写道:“为他人服务帮助他们发现内在精神,因此他们会感恩为他人服务的机会。”正如《BMC公共健康》上发表的研究所指出的,志愿者工作会减少沮丧的感觉,提升整体幸福感。


                  9楼2016-05-14 17:30
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                    还有人在吗


                    11楼2016-05-14 17:46
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                      感恩的话题到此告一段落了啊


                      12楼2016-05-14 17:47
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                        IP属地:广东来自iPhone客户端13楼2016-05-14 19:40
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                          看到这个就想到不是前女友的前女友


                          IP属地:广东17楼2016-05-16 13:24
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